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FRANK & ERICA'S STORY

MEET FRANK – CanCare Patient

When family can’t be there, CanCare can

Life has changed so much for Frank and his daughter Erica in the past few months. An ever active 82 years old, Frank lives in Sydney, 900 km from Erica’s family in Brisbane. For the past few years, Erica has been visiting her dad every few weeks during his treatment for colorectal cancer to attend appointments and spend time together.

Today, restrictions on travel due to COVID mean it’s still very difficult to visit Frank, who now enjoys the support and kindness of two CanCare volunteers who help keep up a little more social contact and support.

“I haven’t seen Dad since early March. The whole family went into self-isolation so we could visit him at Easter but of course we have had to stay away. I said to him, ‘Dad, I don’t want to be the person who causes your death.’ Now we can’t even cross the border.” says Erica.

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While the family stays in touch over the phone, Frank’s CanCare volunteers John and Tony have stepped in to help him get to his appointments and provide some much needed social contact.

Erica says the volunteers have provided a lifeline of support to the family since a hospital social worker referred them to CanCare last year.

“CanCare built rapport with Dad from the first meeting so that he felt confident, comfortable and respected. They have done an amazing job to match him with volunteers who share his interests in politics, news and world affairs.”

Frank speaks several languages and reads the news daily in English, Russian, Croatian and Italian. While he misses catching up with his friends, Erica says Tony and John are always thinking up new ideas for things to do with Frank.

“Before the COVID-19 restrictions, they would often take Dad for lunch to his favourite café. Now they pick up take away from there instead. It’s a small thing but it keeps the connection going.”

Erica says that the hardest part is not knowing when she will next see her dad, as everyone has to get through this difficult and anxious time.

“While I can’t physically be there to shop for him or take him to appointments to get a call or a text from John or Tony after they’ve been with Dad makes a huge difference to me,” says Erica.

Right now, that’s a really big deal.

“I trust the CanCare volunteers to look after Dad. I can’t thank them enough.”

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